David Brian Cooper

David Brian Cooper, age 68, of Elkhart, passed away peacefully at home surrounded by loved ones on July 6, 2024. David was born on November 2, 1955, in Detroit, MI, and was a dedicated family man, a proud Marine, and a man of many talents.

David served his country honorably in the United States Marine Corps during the Vietnam era, embodying the spirit of service and sacrifice. After his military service, he continued to touch the lives of many with his kindness, wisdom, and love.

David is survived by his beloved wife, Peggy; his sister, Ellen Jent of AZ; his “mom at heart,” Barbara Monk of Columbus, OH; his “brother at heart,” Bill Monk of WV; and his cousin, Monica Tarr, and her family in AZ. He leaves behind a large and loving family, including his eight children: Tiffany, Caleb, Dustin, Paul, Alexis, and Ashley of Michigan, Tabitha, Heather, Robert, Kristen, Jerry, and Patrick all of Elkhart, Brianna and Todd of North Carolina, and Kelly of Indiana. David was also a proud grandfather to 16 grandchildren: Morgan, McKenzie, Samantha, Owen, Joshua, Brayden, Jase, Gage, Sawyer, Landon, Corvin, Delaini, Carson, Malcolm and Noah.

He was Preceded in death by his mother, Nora McNett; his father, David Cooper Sr.; his aunt, Midge Fair; his uncle, Hank Euqueser; his “father at heart,” Ronald Monk; his “sister at heart,” Tammy “Monk” McFarland; and his grandson, Thomas.

David was an avid woodworker and fisherman, passions he pursued with great enthusiasm until recent years. Despite his declining health, he found joy and strength in spending time with his family, particularly his namesake, Malcolm David. David often expressed that Malcolm helped him stay around as long as he did.

David’s legacy of love, resilience, and dedication will continue to live on in the hearts of his family and friends and his memory will be cherished forever. He loved all his children and had gained a closer bond with some of them in the last 13 years after his marriage to Peggy. He wanted everyone to know that she was the reason for the man he became. He had many faults and apologized to anyone he ever hurt. He stated that not everyone gets to write their obituary, but he was lucky to be able to so he could put his feelings into words. I call all my children mine whether they were born to me or not. I had a hard life and didn’t know how to show the love I felt, and I am sorry for that. Just remember me as the grumpy old man who loved you all. Through meeting my incredible wife, I learned to love and gained so much from just that. I wish I could tell you all how much you mean to me but there are no words.

Don’t worry about me I will be fine “Marines never really die they go to hell and regroup” I know I will be in Heaven, but I will be watching you from above always.

Please remember to show those you love how much they mean to you every day, wishing I would have learned this sooner in life. As for my grandchildren, go and make Papa proud!

Kids, I need you to all take care of MOM. I know she will be lost but I have faith you will be there for her. Jerry and Paul help her as much as you can, and I know you will. Kristen, just keep being you and it will all be fine. Tiffany, Dusty, Tabitha, Brianna, I wish that I had been as close to you growing up, I’m sorry. Heather, Rob and Alexis continue to help look after mom. I’m counting on you!

Love, Dad and Papa

Love you Peggy with all of me!

Rest in peace, David. Semper Fi

Per David’s wishes cremation has taken place with a private family celebration at a later date. To light a virtual candle, share a memory of David’s life, or offer a message of comfort to his family, visit the Tribute Tab.